It amazes me to what extent people will reach to slander your name and/or push you out of the way for their own goals and personal satisfaction. All this because they see you happy and free as far as your desire and sexual expressions go, even when you attempt to keep them hidden tightly behind closed doors. Is the fact they are so uptight the reason they can’t see past their own ignorance to live and let live? Or are they just angling for an easy out, or outing… for the sake of advancement in the home or work place?
What about the simpler expressions of passion, love, and desire, for the sake of creation, and/or just plain having fun. How many of you have been scoffed at, sneered at, or even cast out of a job position due to your level of desire? In your youth did you ever experiment and take provocative photos or be part of a play being silly yet a little provocative? Why should there be anything wrong with being open and passionate? Barr from the extremes, like stripping down in a public place, pulling your willy out, and applying self-love for all to see.
‘Being passionate for life and love should be acceptable and allowed to be openly expressed without condemnation.’
What about having this type of fun behind closed doors, taking a photo or experiencing a 3rd person in the bedroom, even same sex experiences? This should be OK, shouldn’t it? It’s private and everyone is totally cool with it, right? But what happens if the photo should show up in 10-15 years? Or if the “third” just happens to work at a future place of employment, and it is mentioned over a beer to the boss. What if the boss just happens to be that person you had the same sex experiment with? Why should anyone care? How can this be held against you? IGNORANCE, ASSUMPTION and SHAME, seem to be the key words here, and that’s exactly how it can and will be used against you.
We see it every day in the news, certain celebrities, having fun being comfortable with themselves and their peer’s years earlier. Off camera saying certain words and motioning naughty moves knowing that they were in a safe and trusting environment. It was a personal joke between friends and colleagues wasn’t it? Yet six years later after marrying a person of importance, wham it shows up on the Internet and TV. Then there is the average Joe who has switched his goals and become more conservative in his life’s ambitions, yet his past comes up and he too gets held under public scrutiny and loses his future goals because of someone’s else’s fears and ignorance.
OK am I missing something? Why must we keep in our memory blocks such incidences for the future ruin of a colleague, friend or even family member? Why do we continually mark the pages of time and circumstances for our own betterment?
Sadness is the first word that comes to mind, Anger the second, and lastly Pity.
I too have been under this scrutiny professionally and even personally. I have had many that did not understand what I was trying and continue to try to share with the world.
Now my case is a bit different, for I can be in your face so to speak, being a sexual healing coach and approaching the subject head on. But even when it comes to my profession, and me personally, I keep it clean and undefiled, and I promote it as the healing power of sensuality and rightly so.
Desire created us all without that great formative power and act we would not exist.
I figure if you do not want to hear about it then do not tune in. If the subject matter that others and I approach make you uncomfortable please, just turn the page or walk away. Find that which pleases you and focus wholly on that. I find it very offensive when people assume the worst of a situation rather than seeing it for what it truly is.
‘The power of love and desire and the freedom that can be derived from it is the key to happiness and achieving all of our goals.’
Yet it would seem there are those who can’t seem to “get enough of it”, sex and sensuality that is, and how it relates to others. And as much as they hate the idea of it, they are continually watching the people partaking in this “Evil” thing, in a sense stalking them, thus the image they create and hold is only one of disgust, shame, and injustice, continually condemning others for enjoying the beauty of this wonderful power. They fantasize the worst and even the ugliest of situations with respect to those beautiful acts, and then continually blame those whom are within their focus for implanting those nasty thoughts.
How we express ourselves facilitates how we learn, to error is to be human. This world would be a pretty boring place, if there was only perfection and I have yet to see that in any from of humanity.
It’s time to get a grip people and raise the consciousness of this Planet. What we think and do affects everyone and everything. To come from a loving and beautiful space, no matter how it is expressed is GOOD. To diminish someone’s happiness, and livelihood, because you assume the worst in them is crazy and ignorant. Ignorance breeds the worst within us, it can be the downfall of many a human being.
Lets learn to show compassion and understanding, and if we do not understand something then we must learn through the experience itself, that in which we fear so much! Remember, assumption is just as bad of a motive than ignorance is. Slow down and take a moment, review all the information that is available to you. Show your fellow human beings the gratitude of life and love; this will in ALL-WAYS increase the livingness you hold within yourself. Love is the Law; Pass it on!
[Copyright, Michael Schuessler]
Changing The World One Orgasm ~ At A Time™
Michael Schuessler, author of the sex and sensuality classic, ‘The Holy G-rail’,Please visit his website, www.theholyg-rail.com to see all the different forms of Michaels works of creativity.
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