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Since humans are animals the natural sexual smell attraction known as pheromones especially in women is extremely powerful but on the same hand humans don’t always have sex to breed, in fact most people have sex for pleasure, love and fun.
The sense of sexual smell knows as pheromones can be masked in order to insure that the initial attraction is not just from the way a man smells. That is why cologne is so popular and comes in a variety of different scents, as well as men using baby powder and deodorant; they all mask the true sexual smell.
The majority of women who marry and have children don’t use the sense of natural smell to pick their mates. A true biological match in a male and female where the female is drawn to the man because of his sexual smell it is more powerful than any cologne or pheromone product on the market. Although the reality of finding that perfect biological match is not always an option hence a great cologne.
A man could be a biological match for a woman but not have the mental, social and stability factor and at that point the female brain takes over the biology (animal instinct) or at least it does in most women in choosing a mate. For some women it may play itself out as lust in the beginning or love at first sight, only later to realize that the sexual attraction was all that there was to begin with and purely based on pheromones.
As far as the dating scene goes finding that special person to have a relationship with, it helps to be conscious of what the attracted you to that person in the first place. Most women, who report that it was love at first sight, are talking about love at first smell, better know as lust!
Mother nature blessed or cursed women with a strong sense of smell to find a good biological match, but the directions on how to go about having a relationship with this man outside of sex were never given. Biology is purely to mate with the best possible sperm to create a healthy child…..raising that child, or providing for it were not part of the master plan, that is why we have so many mismatched couples, that end up in divorce or never marry to begin with. Just because he makes you hot, does not mean that he can preform, let alone make for a long term mate, that is something that women have to learn as they get older and wiser. The female brain is the largest sex organ in the body but when it gets over ridden by lust it can be difficult in the beginning to see the difference.
Usually around the three month mark, the female brain begins to clear a little, and this is the time to step back and see the blaring signs…….The best advice is never to rush into any relationship, because we are not just our biology, and time can be our best friend in making a decision that can effect a person for the rest of their lives.
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