A study done by Roy Baumeister at Florida State University and Kathleen Vohls at University of British Columbia found that on college campuses there are often more women than men. On these college campuses where the women outnumber the men, women were found to be more negative about men, be less likely to have a boyfriend, have a more negative attitude towards relationships, date less frequently, and get less of a commitment in a sexual relationship. This essentially is showing how hopeless generations are becoming. People are excited about the gain in gender equality, but is the ability to have promiscuous sex REALLY a plus on the gender equality movement? Women are expecting less and less and giving sex much more freely. Where it used to be entirely common to not have sex until there was some sort of commitment, it is not likely that the sex will come and the commitment may or may not follow at some point in the future. Despite the fact that women outnumber the men on these campuses they are constantly giving up their power. They are giving men the sex they want in the hopes that this will get the women the relationship that they want. Only it isn’t working out that way….the men are having sex with multiple women and the women are just offering it up despite the fact that it IS possible to say NO!
Many women fall back on the idea that all the other girls are doing it and that if you don’t do it the guy may not like you. Well that is false two-fold. First, you have absolutely no clue what other women are doing. Once your friend gets into her home EVEN if the guy went home with her, you have no clue what she actually did there. Maybe she texted you the next day and gave you all these details…..you STILL don’t know. You can do the exact same thing…get a slurpee with a guy and say you did it. Who’s to know better? Now granted why you would want to create this image for yourself is completely on you.
Women are constantly complaining about not having a boyfriend, or not getting asked out, or never finding that quintessential “nice guy.” Well, sorry but if you are going out to every party, getting wasted, and hooking up with any and ALL strangers you can meet, you have NO right to complain. These girls are not the ones finding their prince charming…they are just getting a lot of rides on some frogs. Women used to have expectations. They expected to be courted, taken to dinners, treated like a lady, complimented, and whoo-ed. Now what you just expect a drink and some cash for the taxi in the morning? There are TONS of campuses FULL of guys around Florida. Just in South Florida you have Broward Community College, University of Florida extension, Florida Atlantic University, Florida International University, Nova Southeastern University, etc…that is a huge amount of ground to find your perfect mate. So close your legs, maybe go to a coffee shop instead of a bar, and realize that you don’t have to put out to find a great guy. If you truly find that great guy, he is going to like you for more than what you have between your legs.