Today, let’s talk about the some signs you should recognize to determine if your lady friend is a jerk.
First of all, are you reading this article to find out if she is a jerk? That may be a sign that you already know that she is. As women, most times we do not need something to be validated for us to know the truth. When you find yourself in search of articles that help you justify a person’s behavior or affirms what you already believe to be true, it is pretty much an open and shut case.
Next, has your self-esteem decreased since the two of you became serious? I’m not talking about that once a month blues most of us tend to get right before Aunt Flo’s visit. If you used to think you were better than sliced bread and now you are finding all of the flaws she has pointed out in you. If you used to love that off-put mole between your eyes now you feel like a Cyclops, your girlfriend may be the reason.
One final cue we can consider today is do you question her fidelity? Women in a good relationship know without a doubt that their spouse is faithful. Not because she broke her hip and has not left the house in a month, but because she knows that her girlfriend is dedicated to her and the relationship they are building. But if you find the need to snoop through her text messages, drive by her job to make sure you see her car, or call her from a Beau Jo’s land line number to see if she will think you are someone else, you might be dealing with a jerk. However, you women who spy on your girl no matter what, that statement is not for you. I will have an article for your issues someday, don’t you worry. My point is, if you are usually a secure individual and now you feel the need to hire a private investigator, this might be a signal that your girlfriend is a Class A jerk.
So what should you do now that you have determined that your girlfriend is a jerk? Well, that depends on your dedication and the time you have invested. If you have only been talking for a month and you find yourself suddenly crying as you stroll through LoDo, it might be a sign that you need to move on. Becoming depressed that early on because of the actions of your girl might be the strongest sign that it is not even worth it. You will break up eventually anyway if you have any sense. So let it go before it turns you into a monster that no one could ever date without being some sort of masochist.
If you have been together for a while and believe that the two of you have a chance, try talking. Some people are so afraid to bring up unpleasant conversations in their relationship. But there is no need to be afraid. If she loves you, she will listen and try to correct her damaging behavior towards you. You can give a person the benefit of the doubt and let them know that the things they are saying to you hurt your feelings.
Well, at least this week is already in motion and Friday is just around the corner. I hope you girls enjoy your week and make sure you tell your friends to like my Facebook page, Krisheena Stewart, Denver Lesbian Columnist. Check in. – Sheena